Wednesday, January 2, 2008

Interpreting What’s Written In The Stars To Create A Fulfilling, Passionate, Happy Love Life

A good astrologer can do more than tell you details about your relationship. They can tell you WHAT TO DO WITH THE INFORMATION.

It wouldn’t do you a whole lot of good to have someone give you insights into your relationship dynamics, and only pin-point its strong and weak points without telling you how to handle them.

Think about it – imagine if you were told, “Yeah, you and this guy communicate differently. Bummer. Good luck with that.”

What you’d really need is to be told how to WORK with your differences in communication so that it could be BETTER.

Otherwise, it would be like getting bad lab results from a doctor, with no prescription or cure. Imagine if you had constant headaches, for example, and your blood work indicated an allergy to certain foods. If your doctor said, “Your headaches are from food allergies,” you’d be relieved to know you didn’t have a brain tumor, but you’d still have headaches. If he also said, “So stop eating wheat and corn and you’ll feel 100% better,” then you’d actually have a solution, and your headaches could go away...

You get where I’m going with this – all this information about your “love destiny” with a man is great – but the ONLY WAY to take the deck of cards you are given and turn it into a winning hand is through learning WHAT TO DO with the deck.

Do you stay or do you go?

Do you call up a lost love and try to reconnect with him?

If you’re torn between two lovers, which is the better choice?

Can you shift things with him to prevent more problems in the future?

What’s the best thing to do if he has a bad temper? How do you calm him down and not further trigger his issues?

Is there a way to get him to feel excited to do things for your relationship, and stop unknowingly doing things that take away his motivation?

Can you have an effective way to keep from becoming insecure and freaked out when things suddenly become “off” between you, and instead bring healing and closeness?

Can you help there to be a more even balance of power between you, so you feel like equals?

Clearly, to learn all of these things you need to make sure you’ve found the right source. That should be easy, right?

WRONG!

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